Lost my virginity to a stranger

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Not only is the concept of virginity something made up, but it has also been used as a means of putting women down. It often is considered a bigger deal for girls, but I think that comes from this Virgin Mary complex that is ingrained into westernized societies. I grew up consuming and spouting the idea that virginity was such a silly thing to get worked up over. Because of all the hype around the event, I had such a grand apprehension about it.

There are many people that claim to have rushed their experience and I think that is a part of the problem as well. There has to be a healthy balance between the two.

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Since I was so scared about regretting it, I had already put up a wall to prevent me from ever doing so. Yet, in the same breath, I would complain about my virginity status as all my friends around me were not virgins and were enjoying their sexual awakenings. Photo by Freestocks.

Nevertheless, I waited. The more I waited though, the more I questioned what I really wanted. I thought I wanted my first time to be with someone I cared about. I wanted it to be something like out of a movie, which is another problem with the whole concept of virginity as well. Movies do such a good job at sensationalizing events such as these. The same issue with romance movies occurs.

It sets up this certain expectation about what is supposed to happen. My first time was special for me but not for the reasons you might think. The story begins with a harmless pregame at an apartment.

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I accompanied my best friend to this party as it was being hosted by a boy she was seeing at the time. I personally love a good game of beer pong, so I made a beeline to the table where it was being played. I stood there watching the game, absorbed by the ping pong being thrown back and forth, and one of the players decided to strike up a conversation with me. I could tell that he was probably flirting with me and I played along thinking not much of it.

The night continued and this boy stood by my side for the remainder of the night. The more we talked, the touchier we got. He insisted that we go back to his apartment. I knew that if I agreed to go back to his place that something would happen. I was intrigued, though, and he made me feel comfortable.

His place was a short walk from where the pregame was being held, so I walked on over with him. No metamorphosis occurred. I had decided to tell him after the fact, and he gave me a high five and a congratulations. I collected my belongings as best as I could, except for my shirt R. Once the front door closed behind me, I knew I was screwed.

I attempted to leave by following the exit s that lined the hallways but that only propelled me further into the labyrinth. Eventually, as I was roaming the hallways aimlessly, the guy contacted me via Snapchat and asked me where I had gone.

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He had woken up to a blank spot in his bed. Embarrassed, I had to tell him to come to rescue me as there was no way of me getting out without help. I waited in front of a random apartment and he eventually found me. But he was not mad or upset and was very nice to drive me home to my apartment. I arrived home safely and went straight to bed. Before I had fallen asleep, there was a pit I felt in my stomach. I was afraid that I had perhaps done something wrong.

In the morning, my friend who had taken me to the pregame grilled me about the event. She was excited for me and wanted to know all of the details.

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I began to tell her the story as well as the part of me walking aimlessly in the hallways. She laughed at all the parts I had intended to be laughed at and was overall very happy for me. Her excited nature made me feel better. I realized that I had put so much emphasis on this event because I was afraid of what other people would think.

And that is the main problem with the concept of virginity. However, I think that it is something that is personal to each person. No one else should be able to dictate how you should go about it or if you even lost it. Everyone has the right to lose it how they choose. This random guy freed me from my own problems with virginity.

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You get to decide when it has been lost. The whole point of it being your first time is that there is more to follow. That person will not be your last and if anything, you have an interesting story to tell. HC at FSU. FSU Contributor. Her Campus at Florida State University. Good stuff only! We wanna slide into your DMs but via .

Lost my virginity to a stranger

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Losing My Virginity to a Stranger